I nearly lost my life to allergies!!

Howdy guys!

Today I'm gunna let you know about the day I almost lost my life! 

6 years ago now, I had the dreaded task of calling an ambulance to come and save me from a life threatening allergic reaction, anaphylaxis.
I’d been eating an indian takeaway with the bro and my mouth started feeling super weird, like tingly and on fire, then I felt like my gums were going to explode and my lips started swelling up. I didn't really know before this about allergies or what happens during an allergic reaction but I hadn't twigged at this point that something abnormal was happening! But a couple of minutes later I was struggling to breathe and my throat felt weird, my face had also started swelling, my brother blurting out “eugh whats wrong with your face!” by now I knew something was wrong so I called 111 and they immediately dispatched an ambulance and stayed on the phone till I could hear them coming. I still didn't fully realise I was having a life threatening reaction till after it all happened! Weird! But the ambulance crew arrived and whisked me into the back and from that moment on I became a pin cushion! By the time they had arrived my blood pressure had dropped so much that my veins had collapsed, so with one paramedic stabbing every vein possible and the other alternating shots of adrenaline in my arms and legs I really did start to feel unwell, they say you feel a sense of impending doom with anaphylaxis and I felt it! I got really withdrawn too and had begin shaking and struggling to talk and catch my breath. Once they managed to find a vein in the side of my wrist the journey to A&E began. When I got there there was more needles, drugs and tablets and this carried on for a few hours. Little did I know at the time but I’d also developed a bright red rash over my entire body! I've no idea how I never noticed it but its only when a nurse told me how red I looked! I was like a sunburnt beetroot!! 
I luckily responded well to all the adrenaline, steroids, and antihistamine and within a couple of hours most of my symptoms had gone. 
I had an uncomfortable night in the emergency decisions unit ahead of me! Turns out when you've had an allergic reaction, theres a risk of it happening again within 12 hours, its called a biphasic reaction! So they like to keep you incase it happens again!
About midday the next day my Brother came to pick me up and we had training on how to use an epipen before I was discharged, and we left with 2 epipens in hand.

Now I was in for a shock! I know I’d had an allergic reaction, and it could happen again if I eat the same thing, but what the heck caused it?!?!?! We assumed it was nuts but I sure had an anxious month waiting for my allergy testing appointment. I barely ate, I was too scared! I felt awful because I usually eat extremely well, but the shock of the trauma, then the lack of food really took its toll on me. If I did eat I pretty much eat chips! 
I had skin prick testing to find out what I was allergic to and amongst a million other environmental allergens I was diagnosed with a nut and peanut allergy.
Needless to say it turns out at the age of 22, something went wrong with my immune system and it created all these allergies. This is the only explanation the specialist could give me, so with that I now had to figure out how to live a nut free life, its been tough and frustrating journey but 6 years on its just a normal thing for me to deal with now, its second nature to ask for allergy guides when eating out, missing out on certain foods is just part of life, checking packets for allergy information is so normal its like breathing. 
I carry 2 epipens with me everywhere I go, at all times. There have been a few deaths this year from this and I believe all of them weren't carrying their epipens. 
They're annoying and bulky, but one day I might need them to keep me alive till an ambulance can get to me so for me they are my best friend! 

#alwayscarrytwo

I love to chat to people about allergies and answer questions non allergy people have, I believe the key to raising awareness is education people about food allergies so please ask away! 

Thanks for reading!

Vikky

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Holiday!!!

I went on my holibobs with my Mum and Nana for a long weekend to Felixstowe this weekend and what an eventful weekend it was!

Firstly on the way to felixstowe we stopped off to explore Ickworth House and Gardens. 

I had never heard of this place before Mum said “eh, its on the way there so we might as well see if its any good” and it was soooo good! I highly recommend a visit. It was different than any other house I've been to like this as the basement and servants areas were all on show too, not just the extravagance of the house. So we got to see both sides of life in a wealthy country estate. 


Also what impressed me was every part of the house was accessible for those unable to do stairs, which frustrates me that a lot of other houses aren't as accessible. As my Nana struggles on stairs this was great as she got to see the entire house! We didn't explore the gardens much as we still had about an hour on our journey to get to the caravan site and it was rather chilly so we had a little wander then headed to Felixstowe.


Then the fun begins! We got the keys to the caravan, and the first thing we noticed was one of the doors was swinging open! Fully expecting to walk into the wrong van I moved in for a closer look! And what I saw was food all over the floor, grass and dirt everywhere, clothes still on the floor, bottle tops, a kids toy, the key we had didn't work in the other door, and the door it did work in wouldn't stay shut if it wasn't locked! We saw red and instantly went back to complain, they said they had no other van to move us in to, but could move is to another park, which we would have done is we weren't in the area for a reason. So we opted to let them send maintenance to fix the doors and the cleaners to do what they should have done in the first place! We got given dinner passes for the clubhouse and anxiously awaited our return to the caravan! 

The list of issues here goes on! And actually became a bit of a joke with us guessing what could happen next! Over the 3 nights as well as the issues we had before, the electricity went off, the tv stopped working, and the flint to light the gas in the oven didn't work! Also the allergy information was wrong in the clubhouse which I wont go into detail in as they're investigating it as I type but I was not a happy bunny! 


On the Saturday we went into Ipswich, my Nana was actually born here and evacuated in the war so it was a bit of a homecoming for her, sadly she didn't recognise much as it had changed so much but it was a lovely day out, lots of shopping! Some of the buildings were beautiful! I have a thing for old buildings! Haha!
When we got back me and Mum went for a walk on the sea front, froze our tits off and came back for dinner! 



Sunday there was a antique car event thing on in Felixstowe which Nana wanted to see so we walked in and there were so many cars! Parked all on the road and lined up pretty much the entire length of the promenade. 


The sun came out today which was epic! There was a major lack of sunshine the whole weekend! When we got back to the caravan I forced Mum to come for another walk with me but the other way towards the Port of Felixstowe, she wasn't happy but she enjoyed it when she was out! There is an old fort next to the port which we didn't go into but I had a good snoop from the outside! I kinda loved that where we were, you could face the sea, turn to the side and face a national park and old fort, then turn a bit more and there is the huge Port of Felixstowe! 


On Monday we went into Bury St Edmunds as it was on the way home for a wander around. We found the Cathedral and had an explore and then had a snack before making the journey home. 




I had an amazing time with my family and spending time with my Nana in the area she was born and grew up in. I love spending time by the sea, I just feel different, care free almost. I think I can see myself living by the sea in the future for sure. 

Thanks for reading!

Vikky

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A shocking realisation about sanitary products!

In recent months I have had a shocking reality check. I now despise tampons, towels and liners!
I wanted to switch to a menstrual cup from tampons but I'm still trying to find the right cup for me which obviously means I am still using tampons and liners for my period.

I wanted to switch for a few reasons, firstly I was becoming increasingly aware that female sanitary products are majorly contributing to landfills. Tampons and towels do not degrade. They stay putrefying in landfills forever. Each woman sends about 11,000 disposable sanitary products to landfill over their lifetime. Some of these can also end up in the sea, rivers and washing up on our beautiful British beaches. Gross right?! The majority of these products are made up of plastic, which doesn't degrade. Can you imagine, by the time you finish menstruating, you will have used 11k tampons or towels, which will be there covered in your blood for the rest of time?! In the UK, for every woman, this equates to 200,000 tonnes of waste per year! PER YEAR!!! Call me stupid, but this is shocking! I find it shocking because for the most part, its avoidable! There are alternatives out there that do not contribute to landfills and are much safer for your health. I’ll go into more detail about the alternatives later.
I also discovered that tampons contain chemicals that dye them white, and have been linked to immune system suppression, reproductive issues and cancer. The World Health Organisation has deemed these chemicals as persistent organic pollutants and carcinogenic’s, in other words they pollute our world and can cause cancer. Tampons are mostly made from rayon, which is a non organic cotton, and this means that traces of pesticides, herbicides, insecticides and fungicides can be found in the little white object that you put inside you every month. Can you imagine what is being absorbed into your body?! It doesn't bear thinking. Tampons can also leave tiny fibres behind, irritating your vaginal walls and increasing your risk of toxic shock syndrome, a life threatening condition associated with tampon use. Furthermore, tampons absorb every thing, your period blood but also your natural lubrications, drying out the vaginal canal and causing discomfort and dryness which can lead to rashes and infections. 
Disposable sanitary products cost a fortune! Its been suggested that the average UK woman over her menstruating lifetime could spend around £18k on tampons, towels, liners, pain relief, new underwear from leaks or surprise arrivals of aunt flo, plus things like chocolate which are scientifically proven to release serotonin, a happy hormone! Lets say you have one period a month, thats 12 a year, thats around £500 a year on sanitary products!

This brings me to alternatives to conventional tampons and towels. The most cost effective and least damaging to the planet is menstrual cups. These are cup shaped and collect the period blood rather than absorbing it, you then simply remove it, pour the blood down the loo, give it a wash and pop it back in. Menstrual cups are suitable for everyone, from your first period to your last, the heaviest of flows to the lightest, the most active woman to the least. They come in all shapes and sizes, different firmness and a variety of prices. I personally have tried Mooncup UK size b, and Me Luna small classic, unfortunately I haven't yet found either of them suit me, with the Mooncup being too big and the Me Luna too soft. But there are a tonne of resources out there, one I want to mention is Bree from Precious Stars, check out her YouTube channel here. Everything I have learnt about menstrual cups I have learnt from watching her YouTube videos. I have also been in contact with her shop where she sells reusable pads and menstrual cups and they've been incredibly helpful in helping me find a new suitable cup.
Menstrual cups may look expensive to begin with, and maybe a little daunting, they are bigger than a tampon, theres no getting around that, but even people who haven't been able to tolerate tampons have got on extremely well with a cup. You can even use a cup from your very first period as a teen! I must also mention that a cup can take a little getting used to, most people who switch say they seem to have the hang of it around their 3rd period using it, so if you switch and don't get on first time, just relax and be patient. I have to keep telling myself this, I'm so desperate to stop using tampons that I'm becoming annoyed at myself that I cant make the two cups I've tried work for me but I will get there.
Most cups range in price from around £11 up to £25-30 but they can last 3 to 10 years. So if you exclusively switch to a cup, that £500 a year you spend on tampons and towels has reduced a crazy amount! Also you wont be sending anything to landfill. In my eyes this is a no brainer! Like I don't understand how cups aren't a heck of a lot more popular! I cant wait for the day I find my perfect cup and can stop using disposable products!

In the meantime while I'm finding my perfect cup, I've been looking into cotton tampons and liners. You have to be careful though, as there is a difference between cotton and organic disposable products. Cotton ones still use pesticides and contribute to pollution and have negative health effects like other tampons on the market, organic are what they say, they don't use chemicals on the cotton plants and are completely natural. One brand I am looking to buy from is Natracare, they provide 100% organic cotton products and their tampon applicators are cardboard so are also recyclable. I am also looking into Cottons which you can buy at Boots but so far I can’t see anywhere that says they are organic, only that they are chemical free, I'm not sure if thats the same thing but I shall investigate more! 
Using 100% organic cotton sanitary products is much safer for your health, there is obviously no chemicals in them that your body can absorb, and Natracare also have a statement on their website that claim that the risk of toxic shock syndrome may be reduced by using organic cotton tampons as the bacteria that causes it was not produced with the cotton tampons compared to the “standard” rayon ones which did produce the bacteria.
Cotton also degrades, so when you dispose of your organic cotton towel or tampon you can rest assured it will degrade and wont seep chemicals into the planet.

Another alternative if you are a towel user is to invest in some reusable pads. I haven't looked too much into these as Ive always been a tampon user, but they have actually been shown to be more absorbent than disposable sanitary towels, which will in turn lead to less leakage. They're also supposed to be incredibly comfortable. Again head over to Bree at Precious Stars on YouTube, as she goes into so much detail about them, more than I ever could.

I have also heard of other natural products like sea sponge tampons but haven't looked into them in depth, but again there are so many resources out there for you to have a look at.

For me, I cant fathom why people will go and buy their packs of Tampax and other popular brands. I have been using up the last of a box of Tampax for my current period and I've been feeling all sorts of things, mostly shame, that I have been using products for well over a decade of my life that could be negatively effecting my health and the thought of my used tampons and towels still sitting in a landfill somewhere makes me cringe. In some way it has made me feel ashamed to be a woman, to have periods, and thats wrong. I really want to try and make alternative sanitary products more known about with this post. I want it to make a difference. If each person reading this made the switch to a cup or a natural product, think what a difference that makes to the planet. If you buy a pack of organic cotton towels instead of your usual popular brand, thats 4 plastic bags you wont be sending to landfill. 
If you spend say £20 on a cup, in 3 or so periods you've made your money back, after that you're laughing! You can strut past the feminine care isle in Boots, head held high, cup in place, going fuck you! I don't have to spend my hard earned cash on you anymore! I don't have to absorb your dangerous chemicals, I don't have to send you to landfill! I’m in control!

Come on girlies! Lets try and take a long hard look at sanitary products, and see how you feel about it. Do some research and see if you might be better off with an alternative. You'll be looking after your health, saving the planet and you're bank balance all at the same time! 

Thanks for reading and have a happy period!

Vikky


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